There’s a phrase many of us grew up hearing: “Garbage in, garbage out.” Originally coined in the early days of computer science, it referred to the idea that if you input faulty data into a system, you’ll get faulty results in return. But the concept has stuck around for a reason—it applies far beyond technology. When it comes to what our kids are watching, listening to, and scrolling through each day, the idea still holds true: what goes in is likely to shape what comes out. Whether it’s music, movies, or social media, what our children take in through their eyes and ears is forming their hearts. At Landmark, we know that education is more than information, it’s formation. That means we care deeply about what students are learning to love. And the truth is, much of that formation is happening outside the classroom, in earbuds and on screens.
As parents, we can’t monitor every lyric or storyline, but we can be intentional about staying connected and helping our children think critically. One simple way to do that is to listen together. Ask your child to share a song they love or a show they’re into. Then, instead of reacting, try asking open-ended questions: “What do you like about this?” or “How does this make you feel?” or “What message do you think it’s sending?” These kinds of conversations invite trust and help our kids reflect, rather than absorb content uncritically. It’s amazing how much insight and depth they’re capable of when given the chance.
Another helpful practice is to curate media with care. Create a shared family playlist filled with songs that are fun and uplifting, or start a weekly movie night featuring stories that reflect courage, creativity, or strong moral character. Kids and teens are drawn to beauty, rhythm, and compelling storytelling, so let’s offer them good options! Giving them something meaningful to enjoy doesn’t have to be boring or overly restrictive. When families discover music or shows they all like, it opens the door for shared values and ongoing conversations.
In a world that competes daily for the attention and affections of our children, we have the opportunity to guide them gently toward what is good, true, and beautiful. It’s not just about avoiding “bad stuff”, it’s about helping them crave what’s best. As always, we are here to support and partner with you in raising young men and women who love the Lord with their heart, soul, mind, and strength.
